Why We Went Into Debt To Purchase A 2017 Kia Sedona

Why We Went Into Debt To Purchase A 2017 Kia Sedona

In severe pain from an unpleasant sickness, I was driving down the highway in North Carolina when the transmission in our van gave out. It was late in the evening and we were heading to my father-in-law's house after taking my son to the emergency room, which was under lockdown and surrounded by dozens of police officers. The police were there for some threat of violence. My son was there because of a dry drowning incident at the beach. Yeah, it was a series of unfortunate events. Thankfully my wife's dad was able to rescue us as we left the limping van near an auto shop to determine its fate.

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How Switching To A Healthcare Sharing Service Has Saved Us Thousands Of Dollars

How Switching To A Healthcare Sharing Service Has Saved Us Almost Forty Thousand Dollars

Shortly after we were married and moved to Atlanta, we had a friend sign us up for medical insurance through Kaiser Permanente. For me and my wife with pregnancy coverage, our cost in 2006 was just short of $200 per month. Looking back, that was a pretty killer deal. 
Over the years we had four kids and the health insurance marketplace changed dramatically. Eight years later in 2013, we were paying $1,200 per month for a family of five (any additional kids would not have raised the rate). In 2013 our company took a sabbath year to discover our future. During this year, finances were tight for all of us involved and we had to seriously explore alternatives. 

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Take Your First Step Towards Saving

Take The First Step Towards Short, Medium & Long Term Savings

As I mentioned in my blog about 2015, our full water tower has empowered us to save money. As a freelancer, I don't have the luxury of a company and HR department taking care of this for us. So, we've got to learn and appreciate the intrinsic wisdom and make a decision to act on our own accord. For us, we've established short term, medium term and long term reservoirs (accounts) to channel our watertower overflow funds into.

  • For short term savings, we've setup a new Chase bank savings account to house this reservoir.
  • In exploring options for our medium term reservoir, I discovered Barclay's Dream Savings account with great savings account interest. I easily set one up and funded it with $55 from our Chase account last month.
  • Thanks to my father-in-law, we've had an education investment account through Edward Jones for our kids. With this relationship already in place, it was easy to get an additional investment account setup for our long term savings. We've got $130 in there now.
Our current top priority is to start slowly moving money into these three accounts. As we develop momentum, we'll revisit how we can be more effective. For now, just consistently doing it matters more than how we do it. 

The Financial Debt Trap - A Zealous Hiring - Part 1 of 3

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Just as the rich rule the poor, so the borrower is servant to the lender. Proverbs 22:7
Debt. It can bring up a range of opinions, feedback and feelings. Throughout my life, my father did everything he could to teach me the dangers of debt and he urged me to steer far away from it. In some ways, I heeded his advice. What I did not realize was there are indirect roads to debt, especially when it comes to business. 
When we started Noodlehead Marketing, I committed to refrain from going into debt. Unfortunately, what I did not realize was there were other bad decisions I could make which would lead me to do the very thing I committed not to do. Here is the first of three stories on how Noodlehead Marketing fell into the debt trap.
The First Trap - A Zealous Hiring
In late 2008, I needed a sales person, or at least I convinced myself I did. I was not going to change my mind. It was just a matter of finding someone to fill the role.
There was a gentleman I looked up to who recommended someone he knew. Because of the state I was in and how highly this recommendation was given, I was now fixed on hiring this person. Any flags that came up were of no concern, because hiring this person was going to give me what I wanted, a sales person. 
As you can probably guess, after 3 months he was not generating the results I needed. Now to be fair, he was switching industries, products, and we did not have a good sales system in place. Everything was going against him to start with, so unless he knew his stuff coming in, there was really no realistic way for him to be successful.
In addition, I had a hard time holding him accountable because I felt like I needed him. My fear was, if I held him accountable, he might leave. After the three months had gone by, we ran out of money to pay him. At this point I should have cut the cord and let him go, but I was too attached and committed.
I needed it to work. We just needed more time. 
Underlying all this, I was struggling to acknowledge I had made a mistake and instead of facing this harsh reality, I chose to avoid it.
From my experience and observation, I have found debt tends to be a symptom of avoidance. Instead of waiting or addressing the issues we really need to discuss, we instead choose to procrastinate them. Borrowing money allows us to avoid the issue and push it off into the future. 
So instead of cutting it off with this sales person, we continued for 3 more months hoping things would turn around, and he would be bringing in enough income to pay for himself. It wasn't enough time, and ten thousand dollars of credit card debt later I decided to make a change. Instead of letting him go, I prolonged our agony and changed his compensation to commission only. It was the easy way for me to let him go.
Reflecting on the situation, I look back and realize my problem was not the lack of a sales person. I had learned about the idea of hiring a sales person, and this became a shiny object. It was my silver bullet to success and I decided I was going to get what I wanted. When I got it, I was not willing to let go, even when it hurt the company. It was in this place where we maintained a cycle which was destructive to me, the sales person and the company. 
When we ran out of money and we had to go into debt to continue, we should have decided to lean in and deal with the reality at hand. By doing whatever I could to escape reality, I caused it to get much worse. 
What shiny object has pulled you into debt?

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